Joyce Wong
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- Top Performers are Pathologically Ambitious - by Matt Beard35 savers
- Stop telling people to pivot to AI safety, I beg you — LessWrong4 savers
- The Gay Science (trans. Walter Kaufmann)1 savers
- The Digital Panopticon: Why Automated Surveillance Threatens a Free Society | Cato at Liberty Blog1 savers
- Field Map – AISafety.com2 savers
- Copy of Fundamentals of Deception - Google Docs1 savers
- How to write a sex column without writing about sex | Sex On Tuesday | dailycal.org1 savers
- North Americans have depressing relationships - by Spencer20 savers
- AI Safety funding, grants and programs open in summer-fall 2026 - Google Docs1 savers
- OBIT | The Poetry Foundation1 savers
- Childhood – died | Kenneth Sun1 savers
- Making Beliefs Pay Rent (in Anticipated Experiences) — LessWrong3 savers
- What Developmental Milestones Are You Missing? | Slate Star Codex3 savers
- Ask vs guess culture - by Jean Hsu - Tech and Tea11 savers
- Taboo Your Words — LessWrong2 savers
- Information Hazards4 savers
- Speed matters: Why working quickly is more important than it seems « the jsomers.net blog69 savers
- flâneur — a map of Curius links19 savers
- Augmenting Long-term Memory1 savers
- On sincerity - Joe Carlsmith9 savers
- Soldiers and Scouts with Julia Galef - The Decision Lab1 savers
- What Alex Bores’s New York Defeat Reveals About the Fight Over A.I. Money in Politics - The New York Times2 savers
- Things to buy | near.blog8 savers
- Lighthaven East - A Feasibility Study — LessWrong4 savers
- Making Things Happen6 savers
- On suicide - Google Docs5 savers
- fragments of moriana // san francisco journals #21 savers
- Why Nerds are Unpopular11 savers
- My parenting philosophy was actually trauma2 savers
- Sophomore year recap / life update - by Vivian Loh2 savers
- Half A Month Of Consolation Writing Advice3 savers
- Halupedia — Halupedia1 savers
- Crocker's Rules6 savers
- The Third Thing by Donald Hall | Poetry Magazine23 savers
- here.now | Instant web hosting for agents4 savers
- The Stanford Freshmen Who Think They Rule the World - The Atlantic6 savers
- Track Migrations4 savers
- Transgender Creeks and the Three Figures of Power in Late Liberalism | differences | Duke University Press1 savers
- i got married on thursday and hated it by friday1 savers
- The Poster Movement: A lonely protest in Beijing echoed by politically awakening Chinese students overseas | Archives | dailycal.org1 savers
- Does a situationship violate Kant’s philosophy of humanity?2 savers
- i’m not a violent dog, i don’t know why i bite | by keng | Medium1 savers
- THEOI GREEK MYTHOLOGY - Exploring Mythology in Classical Literature & Art1 savers
- main.pdf1 savers
- Even if you beat me - The Dublin Review58 savers
- What's going on here, with this human? - Graham Duncan Blog49 savers
- Do Thing, Do One Thing49 savers
- Cities and Ambition42 savers
- The Rationality Community Sucks28 savers
- Notes on Managing ADHD23 savers
- Notes on Effective Altruism22 savers
- ALIGNMENT - by vincent huang - a slice of my mind22 savers
- Omens of exceptional talent - Alexey Guzey22 savers
- Curius21 savers
- How do you find your people, when searching is itself an antipattern? | Kevin Liu20 savers
- you like books and think they are your friends - by Ava19 savers
- trees are harlequins, words are harlequins — the void15 savers
- Cursed omens of exceptional talent - Alexey Guzey13 savers
- What the humans like is responsiveness - by Sasha Chapin13 savers
- Making Normal Conversations Better - by Sasha Chapin12 savers
- Things You Learn Dating Cate Hall - by Sasha Chapin12 savers
- the fall of the wife trial | arielle lok12 savers
- AI in 2025: gestalt — LessWrong11 savers
- Handy Arrows10 savers
- Why Are There So Many Rationalist Cults?—Asterisk10 savers
- The Egg8 savers
- Voltaire's Garden8 savers
- Age, Sex, Location - Longreads8 savers
- Unparalleled Misalignments6 savers
- CAIS AI Dashboard6 savers
- Have no excuses6 savers
- Cold and Warm Cultures – Knowingless6 savers
- The Bay Area is cursed - by Sasha Chapin6 savers
- Semantic Art Gallery5 savers
- Emotional Intelligence Amplification—Asterisk4 savers
- Write Like You Talk4 savers
- On Bullshit3 savers
- Jiggity's Essays3 savers
- Navigation by Moonlight - by Jacob Falkovich3 savers
- Taboo Your Words - LessWrong3 savers
- Existentialism is a Humanism, Jean-Paul Sartre 19463 savers
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highlights · 98
There is no expectation that you can remain untouched by the choices, values, struggles and conflicts of the person you speak to on a daily basis.
North Americans have depressing relationships - by SpencerI've read that this is why poor whites in the United States are the group most hostile to blacks.
Why Nerds are UnpopularI now only cry on like 1-2 days every week
Sophomore year recap / life update - by Vivian LohAt the beginning of the year, I still had quite a lot of ego remaining from high school, since high school kinda gave me a false sense of high capability, and so I felt like I should be able to do anything — perform well on any test, take as many classes as I wanted and still be fine, be accepted to any program, etc. But one by one, these beliefs crumbled as the world proved me wrong. Throughout the 1st and 2nd trimesters this year, I was repeatedly beaten down by bad grades and not achieving things I wanted to, and constantly felt distraught over the fact that I wasn’t good enough. I also fel…
Sophomore year recap / life update - by Vivian LohI’ve also finally learned how to study effectively. (The caveat is that I need to be really time-constrained to actually focus, because I have major focusing issues.)
Sophomore year recap / life update - by Vivian LohBut I felt like something was missing. As a kid, I longed for a pet—then I’d never need anyone else again. As an adult, I believed that if I could date the right guy, I’d have it all.
My parenting philosophy was actually traumashe would exult when she found one in my drafts: “Perkins! Here’s a dead metaphor!”
The Third Thing by Donald Hall | Poetry MagazineI don't trust my tiredness
Do Thing, Do One ThingHere's a simple trick for getting more people to read what you write: write in spoken language.
Write Like You TalkHe asks if she’s too twenty-first-century feminist for me.
christmas, cologone, curtis - by Ady Mehta - Ady’s SubstackArguments against 2025 capabilities growth being above-trend
AI in 2025: gestalt — LessWrongMy parents were good to my siblings and me, and we loved them. But they’d be affectionate to us kids one moment and vile to Lola the next.
A Story of Slavery in Modern America - The Atlanticit is a natural formal analogue of the widely accepted Principle of Total Evidence
main.pdfit yields a theory of belief- revision which avoids certain difficulties that arise for Bayesian Conditionalization .
main.pdfA Small Guide To Social Cues
A Small Guide To Social Cuesbut as a way to get closer
A Small Guide To Social Cuesanswer your messages on time.
A Small Guide To Social Cues"your fly is down" "you've got bit of green vegetable stuck in your teeth."
A Small Guide To Social Cuesdominate conversation.
A Small Guide To Social Cuesmodern society is difficult to live in. there are so many expectations. so many hidden rules.
A Small Guide To Social Cuesi endorse feeling this way, only that i do
on materialismIt's pretty easy actually.
Making Things HappenJoyce pointed to the lesswrong concept of steering versus rowing.
Making Things Happenbut their lessons, or constant reminders, over time have endured.
on materialismthrifting, i hear, is in-fashion.
on materialismnor seek the best deals
on materialismI've also been reading Infinite Jest lately, and this quote from the book's protagonist feels apt here: "God seems to have a kind of laid-back management style I'm not crazy about. I'm pretty much anti-death. God looks by all accounts to be pro-death. I'm not seeing how we can get together on this issue, he and I"
on san franciscothe subtle shifts in light and shadow on your cheeks (you, switching to another tab)
ALIGNMENT - by vincent huang - a slice of my mindyou pulled out your phone and showed me how a transcription app would activate every fifteen minutes and categorize all your activities in a spreadsheet.
ALIGNMENT - by vincent huang - a slice of my mindthe first three times this happened i thought it was some kind of alarm, and eventually i asked if you had somewhere else to be
ALIGNMENT - by vincent huang - a slice of my mindDoes the median woman in the bay area act differently or treat men differently?
this isn’t a one-off | by Abby Brooks-Ramirez | MediumThis rhetorical trick makes it so that if any frank statement is made for the male perspective about the challenges of dating women, it can be reframed as "reducing women to merely a dating commodity, above their status as a peer".
this isn’t a one-off | by Abby Brooks-Ramirez | MediumIf you got this far, thanks for sharing your thoughts and provoking my own.
this isn’t a one-off | by Abby Brooks-Ramirez | Mediummental shape with the Luigi Mangione case
Opinion | Why Everyone Is Obsessed With the Louvre Heist - The New York Timesthe irony is the wife trial is excellent when the husband in question is not a match.
the fall of the wife trial | arielle lokyou already know what you both want so, here! have it!
the fall of the wife trial | arielle lokalong the way that would bring it there to begin with.
the fall of the wife trial | arielle loki knew what love was and what it could be.
the fall of the wife trial | arielle lok3. Maintain multiple social groups. Ideally, have several friends who aren’t rationalists.
Why Are There So Many Rationalist Cults?—AsteriskWhat if we taught all boys, I wondered, to appreciate this sort of rejection as a form of care?
I Spent My Life Consenting to Touch I Didn’t Want - The New York Timeswomen who have spent their entire lives being socialized not to upset or disappoint people.
I Spent My Life Consenting to Touch I Didn’t Want - The New York Times“use ambiguous social cues that are common in both consensual and nonconsensual sexual interactions.”
I Spent My Life Consenting to Touch I Didn’t Want - The New York Timesa precursor to fear.
I Spent My Life Consenting to Touch I Didn’t Want - The New York Timesan element of ambivalence.
I Spent My Life Consenting to Touch I Didn’t Want - The New York TimesI was sexually assaulted in a Silicon Valley hacker house. > This article is also a good source if you need help.
SF needs to stop covering up for menWe shouldn’t accept slop, whether it’s a product or someone’s behavior.
SF needs to stop covering up for menI know firsthand that not all men are assholes in San Francisco.
SF needs to stop covering up for mento your most elegant despair.
An Existential Guide to: Making Friendshis reputation has gone mostly unharmed.
SF needs to stop covering up for mencornering intoxicated girls who had clearly expressed their disinterest.
SF needs to stop covering up for men