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Thomas Eggerer, Waterworld, 2015 Last night I was talking to a friend about being assertive. He said that he disapproves of passivity, that it’s important to take charge of your own destiny. If you want to meet girls, you have to go out and approach them. If you want a fulfilling career, you have actively identify what you’d like to do and make it happen. I agreed with him, but thought there was a second part of the equation: you have to be healthy. Maybe healthy isn’t the right word: I’m thinking of something halfway between mature and self-aware. I believe that things come to us when we…

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