on compatibility - by Nix 🕊 - starting from nix

is it a good fit?

Kyutae Lee These days I crave space to think, to discover, the way someone craves food or sleep after stretches of being deprived. Specifically, I crave that feeling of being able to follow the thread of curiosity, having long days to linger on abstract things, concepts with no direction, no end. I miss being a kid, when you had endless space to discover what you liked. I was rewarded back then for curiosity, nowadays I’m rewarded mostly for efficiency and clarity. Lately I’ve been thinking about compatibility. Which is this amorphous concept that people usually refer to in the context of…

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