10 Insights from 10 Years of Transformational Conversations

My findings from 2,600 meetings about personal evolution.

I’ve spent the last ten years studying life transitions and personal transformation. Greater freedom over my calendar since I founded The Leading Edge has meant I am now meeting at least fifteen new people every week. At this point I’ve probably had ~2,600 conversations on the topics of life transitions and personal flourishing. As a result I feel I now have enough anecdata to make a few useful generalizations. They will doubtless offend as many people as they intrigue. The 18-36 Pattern. I was once told that we spend from birth to eighteen years old essentially forming a personality. We…

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