You Can't Flirt Because You Can't Read.

What foreplay really is.

I thought I didn't know how to flirt until this guy asked me why I never wear my glasses with him and I said "I don't want any barriers between my eyes and yours" He responded, “whew you trying to talk me out my drawers!” That wasn’t premeditated. Nor have I been walking into walls and squinting hoping for a love interest to ask me where my glasses are like I’m Velma. That was pure off the dome, whimsy wit. If someone compliments your appearance in person, “you’re so gorgeous”, please don’t just say thank you. Flirt. Challenge them. Lean in a little. Look them in the eyes. Slow it down…

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• Nikki Guo

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