date someone who is interested in you - mixtapes by gor

it’s easy to find people who are attracted to you. it’s harder to find someone who is curious.

date someone who is genuinely interested in you. not just the surface-level fascination, not the curated version of you that smiles for pictures and keeps conversations light. i mean someone who slows down enough to notice what kind of silence you fall into when you’re tired, what song you hum without realizing, what time of day you seem to disappear into your thoughts. someone who pays attention not because they have to, but because knowing you feels like a privilege. it’s easy to find people who are attracted to you. it’s harder to find someone who is curious. the kind of person who…

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