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Birthday letters (II) - by Evana - arbiter of distaste

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Hi, it’s my birthday today. Last year I wrote myself a letter and I figured I should do it again. Thank you for continuing to be here. It’s such an incredible gift. For the month of October, I’m offering a 28% discount on paid subscriptions (monthly & annual). Or, you can share this post on social or with someone you think would enjoy it. 28% off subscriptions + How you made it to twenty-eight1: 1. Have more sleepovers with friends When you live in a city with friends scattered throughout a handful of neighborhoods, many weekends can and should include crashing at one of their apartments. Ask to borrow a t-shirt before curling up beside them. However many hours of sleep you get is beside the point. It’s a pleasure just to share a bed. Get bleary-eyed coffee in the morning and linger. Wear their clothes home. This becomes another way of keeping them with you. 2. Sometimes you have to throw a bit of a tantrum No matter how many years pass, you realize again and again that you’ve just gro

Hi, it’s my birthday today. Last year I wrote myself a letter and I figured I should do it again. Thank you for continuing to be here. It’s such an incredible gift. For the month of October, I’m offering a 28% discount on paid subscriptions (monthly & annual). Or, you can share this post on social or with someone you think would enjoy it. 28% off subscriptions + How you made it to twenty-eight1: 1. Have more sleepovers with friends When you live in a city with friends scattered throughout a handful of neighborhoods, many weekends can and should include crashing at one of their…

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