Seasons of loneliness - Tommy Dixon
The other day, my roommate asked me whether I'd want to spend a day doing something I like alone, or doing something I dislike but with someone I love. At first, the answer was obvious. As a tried and true introvert, I spend a lot of time alone, living in my heavily populated solitude, and rather enjoy it. Most of the time, I am not lonely. I am simply alone. But, I thought a moment. I remembered a cold and gray October day, when a mean-spirited rain fell in sheets and I was outside planting cloves of garlic three inches into the mud for five hours, hands numb but shoulder to shoulder with a friend from Italy who liked to talk about philosophy and free will and never failed to have fun. If I had to choose, I would repeat that day in a heartbeat. Over any day I've spent alone. At the time, it was frustrating, verging on maniacally funny, but now is one of the best memories I have. Moving to a new city has been interesting because it provides the delightful and daunting opportunity to cu
April Rain by Fred Hagan The other day, my roommate asked me whether I'd want to spend a day doing something I like alone, or doing something I dislike but with someone I love. At first, the answer was obvious. As a tried and true introvert, I spend a lot of time alone, living in my heavily populated solitude, and rather enjoy it. Most of the time, I am not lonely. I am simply alone. But, I thought a moment. I remembered a cold and gray October day, when a mean-spirited rain fell in sheets and I was outside planting cloves of garlic three inches into the mud for five hours, hands numb but…
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