everywhere i go, i'm hoping i meet someone like you

some light reflections on post grad people, friendships, and love

meowdge [thoughts i had in june, 2023] last month, my roommate, who has been consistently one of my closest friends in the past few years, moved to new york city. at the beginning of this year, i had also made the definite, difficult and right decision to cut someone close off, someone who i had known for the past 8 years. these developments were for the best - my ex-roommate is now growing in a new, unfamiliar city, and my mind has never felt clearer and more at ease since letting go of something old that was anchoring me back. yet, this made me feel quite sad, and in particular, very…

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