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The Marriage Decision: Everything Forever or Nothing Ever Again

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We're forced to make a black-and-white, binary decision in the most important moment of our lives. Let's take a deep breath and figure this out together.

There’s not really any normal way to start a relationship. Some people go on a date, and then another date, and then another, and one day it’s just clear to both of them that they’re in a relationship. Some people start seeing each other, but they keep things black and white until a “So are we doing this?” conversation makes it official. Sometimes a platonic friendship forms first and tension builds under the surface until an unexpected kiss lights the friendship on fire. But there’s usually some first time that this happens: And suddenly, you’re here:

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