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Everything I’ve learned about love - by Vivian Loh

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I’ve been through quite a lot of highs and lows over the past few years, and this is a collection of relationship-related thoughts I had, drawn from my own experiences. My experiences are different from yall’s, so I don’t want to project anything onto you, or over-generalize, and I’m definitely not the most knowledgeable on this topic. These are simply conclusions that I have drawn from the situations I’ve been in. Some of them will apply to only select scenarios. The lack of detail is because I don’t want to reveal private information without approval from the people involved…! It might just happen when you’re not thinking about it. If you’re not focused on trying to get into a relationship, it might just suddenly happen at the right time, and it’ll feel natural and not forced. Don’t worry if nothing has happened to you yet — if you keep doing interesting things and meeting interesting people, someday something will happen, and it’s most definitely not too late. The most important thi

I’ve been through quite a lot of highs and lows over the past few years, and this is a collection of relationship-related thoughts I had, drawn from my own experiences. My experiences are different from yall’s, so I don’t want to project anything onto you, or over-generalize, and I’m definitely not the most knowledgeable on this topic. These are simply conclusions that I have drawn from the situations I’ve been in. Some of them will apply to only select scenarios. The lack of detail is because I don’t want to reveal private information without approval from the people involved…! It might…

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