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Günther Förg, Untitled, 2007 If it’s a great first date, they might just have a lot of practice going on first dates. Stolen from a TikTok (I will link it if someone finds it): there are three types of people in the world: 1) people who are, for whatever reason, down bad for you. 2) People who kind of like you and if you do all the work are along for the ride. 3) The rest of the world, i.e. people who don’t like you. Given that you’ve gone on a few dates and have gotten know each other (most people aren’t down bad for anyone in the very beginning), DO NOT spend time trying to change a Type…

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