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The Difficulty In Dating Good Men - by Aella - Knowingless

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my contribution to the low birthrate

(This isn’t a “true story”, but rather a collection of tiny true details from lots of different interactions, strung together for a vibe) I’m supposed to find someone who makes me happy. I’m 33, I’m weird, and I’ve got some eggs frozen. Let’s go. Despite the internet’s conservative confidence, I’m not too worried about the poly slut thing. I live in SF and in the cultures willing to invite me to their parties, it’s normal to casually overhear someone referring to their boyfriend and their husband in the same sentence. Every other person I meet is poly, and I know many decades-long…

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