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The Odds are Good & the Goods are Great - by Eudai

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Women looking for partners should initiate more

I want to urgently hammer into the consciousness of every progressive American straight woman struggling to find a partner that they should ask people out. I have long been distressed by the reports of women with unhappy dating lives coming in from my direct social circle and the broader US culture, and my hunch is that this is one of the key factors separating their experiences from mine. I have never been on a bad date. I have never had sex I felt coerced into. I have also asked people out five times more often than I’ve been asked out, and I don’t think this is coincidence. (Concretely:…

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