choosing for yourself - by jaron - the way home
I've only just started making decisions for myself. Ever since I was young I would frequently defer judgment to other people for the choices in my life: the restaurant we were going to, career paths I should pursue, the kinds of people I spent time with. I was remarkably unconcerned and apathetic about my own stance on anything. Common strings in my vocabulary —
The Queen of Phobos (1982) by Phoenix Software I've only just started making decisions for myself. Ever since I was young I would frequently defer judgment to other people for the choices in my life: the restaurant we were going to, career paths I should pursue, the kinds of people I spent time with. I was remarkably unconcerned and apathetic about my own stance on anything. Common strings in my vocabulary — I'm good with whatever and I don't really mind. I grew accustomed to not being heard; a verbal invisibility metastasized through my interactions. In place of my own opinions and ideas,…
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