imperfections - by Elaine - manners & mystery
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are we good for each other?
Kazuaki Tanahashi, Mind/Heart People’s gut instincts about their relationships are usually correct. The reason they might waver and stay in one that’s unhealthy is because they rationalize too much. On the other hand, you can know deep down that your relationship isn’t working but hold onto it anyway because your heart is all in it. I wonder if the difference has to do with the different ways we fall in love. If you’re a rational lover, you recognize all the positive qualities in someone, all the ways in which they’re a good partner. But a person’s imperfections can make them just as…
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