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I want to conclude our interplanetary exploration of sex differences with one that’s of great interest to me personally: there seems to be little explicit advice on dating for women, and almost none of it is written by men. Despite my sincere attempts to write for both sexes, the percent of my own subscribers who are of the female persuasion is lower than when I used to write 4,000-word treatises on sports analytics. There’s a lot written by and for women about the care and maintenance of existing relationships. But as far as getting into a relationship, almost all advice for them boils down to overcoming insecurity and selecting the right man. Very little is oriented towards changing oneself to become more desirable, even less towards proactively seeking the right man wherever he may be. In my review of How to Not Die Alone, I concluded: The goal of How to Not Die Alone is not to change the reader, it’s to validate her. I contrasted H2NDA with Mate: Become the Man Women Want, a self-h

Navigation by Moonlight The power of yin: wielded by women, invisible to men, and everywhere under attack Mar 21, 2025 122 19 12 Share I want to conclude our interplanetary exploration of sex differences with one that’s of great interest to me personally: there seems to be little explicit advice on dating for women, and almost none of it is written by men. Despite my sincere attempts to write for both sexes, the percent of my own subscribers who are of the female persuasion is lower than when I used to write 4,000-word treatises on sports analytics . There’s a lot written by and for women abou

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