Melissa Regalado
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- Chapter 1 | Chatting with Glue5 savers
- Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use It1 savers
- eating the table waffle4 savers
- making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear express17 savers
- Optimism is Always the Best Strategy - by Sherry7 savers
- Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qian45 savers
- Here's to the fools who dream54 savers
- where you live can change who you are - by Minh D7 savers
- The Power of Play-Based Learning in preschool and elementary school | Edutopia1 savers
- feeling behind - by Nix 🕊 - starting from nix16 savers
- How Nonprofits are Collaborating on Felt to Get Out the Vote1 savers
- Felt for Educators: Best Strategies to Keep Students Engaged1 savers
- Essay: The digital death of collecting3 savers
- reaching for unreachable - by Sarah - liminal space2 savers
- free time - by Sarah Wood - liminal space1 savers
- 🌻 same old - by Jasmine Sun - half-baked futures29 savers
- comparison - by Elaine - manners & mystery3 savers
- lingering - by Elaine - manners & mystery6 savers
- alternate lives - by Spencer Chang - spencer's paradoxes3 savers
- on digital maps & consumerist city | eugene kudashev finally has a blog???2 savers
- The Errand Friend Date & Practicing Possibility2 savers
- resistance & regret - by Isabel - Mind Mine18 savers
- dissonance - by Isabel - Mind Mine8 savers
- default states3 savers
- letters to Nobody ❦ | Anita Ilango | Substack2 savers
- Doing it for the plot - by Alya Mooro2 savers
- remembering – vivian meng 🪄2 savers
- Can you fill space? - by shaahana - rambles11 savers
- It’s okay to be boring6 savers
- Friendships are the greatest love stories of our lives1 savers
- How to synthesize data using affinity diagramming1 savers
- grieving someone who is still alive - by sundus4 savers
- choices - by Nicole - startingfromnix11 savers
- Why I do what I do | Jocelyne Murphy58 savers
- How can we develop transformative tools for thought?52 savers
- finding the right people - by Nicole - startingfromnix49 savers
- Cities and Ambition47 savers
- crushes are often just misplaced ambition - by Isabel42 savers
- Making Normal Conversations Better - by Sasha Chapin41 savers
- Intentionally Making Close Friends — Neel Nanda38 savers
- how to avoid half-heartedness - by Ava - bookbear express36 savers
- A Brief History & Ethos of the Digital Garden31 savers
- Why we stopped making Einsteins - by Erik Hoel29 savers
- "am I wasting my 20s?" - by Nicole - startingfromnix28 savers
- Notes on Roadtrips26 savers
- Maggie Appleton26 savers
- people come and go - by Nicole - startingfromnix23 savers
- How do you find your people, when searching is itself an antipattern? | Kevin Liu20 savers
- Kernel | all the better to see you with19 savers
- Thought as a Technology17 savers
- run your own race - by Ava - bookbear express16 savers
- internal confidence - by Nicole - startingfromnix15 savers
- ambition as a fingerprint15 savers
- dear friend or perfect stranger - by Nix 🕊15 savers
- attending to the other - by Jasmine Wang 🌱13 savers
- nothing to prove - by Nix 🕊 - starting from nix10 savers
- Notes apps are where ideas go to die. And that’s good. · reproof10 savers
- You'd Be Happier Living Closer to Friends. Why Don't You?10 savers
- choosing the life you want - by Sarah - liminal space10 savers
- Mini Blog Post 23: Taking Social Initiative — Neel Nanda10 savers
- The People Who Prioritize a Friendship Over Romance - The Atlantic9 savers
- boring lives - by Spencer Chang - spencer's paradoxes9 savers
- The Indy8 savers
- Social Media Is Not Self-Expression – The New Inquiry8 savers
- The unreasonable effectiveness of one-on-ones | benkuhn.net8 savers
- The Fruits of Friendship - David Perell7 savers
- To academia or not to academia7 savers
- "I'm not ready" but it's happening anyways - by Nix 🕊7 savers
- Mini Blog Post 15: The illusion of doing nothing — Neel Nanda6 savers
- What does it mean to flourish? - by Ashley Zhang6 savers
- qualities I like and don't like in people - by Ava5 savers
- mind.pdf5 savers
- Joan Didion on Keeping a Notebook – The Marginalian5 savers
- Building complex reasoning skills online through open-ended activities5 savers
- Too Much Photo-Taking Can Undermine Memory : Shots - Health News : NPR4 savers
- 001: You Are Here; Here You Are - Under reconstruction...4 savers
- notes from the end of summer - by rayne fisher-quann4 savers
- Why Time Slows Down When We’re Afraid, Speeds Up as We Age, and Gets Warped on Vacation – The Marginalian3 savers
- Virginia Woolf on the Nature of Memory and How It Threads Our Lives Together – The Marginalian2 savers
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“If I have a student who completely disengages because he does not feel like it’s relevant or I have a student who might be excited about e-sports or science, I can tap into that student’s passion and personalize this lesson to build engagement,
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use ItSmokorowski also said she uses ChatGPT to make accommodations for student interests and learning challenges
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use ItTo help students with those reading assignments, Kerr uses his planning period to use ChatGPT to give summaries of works of literature or to help answer whatever questions other teachers are asking his students, so he can better guide them through the text or assignment. Using ChatGPT saves him time from having to read all the assigned literature to help each student.
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use ItAI is the future of education. While only a few other teachers in her district use AI, Edwards thinks all teachers should start learning how to incorporate it into their classrooms.
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use It“I use AI to help create lesson plans, presentations, write emails, and to create checklists. AI is a great resource to use as an initial starting point for a task or to give you ideas
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use ItDespite those risks, teachers have used AI-powered tools to plan lessons, create rubrics, provide feedback on student assignments, and respond to parent emails. And they’re looking for other ways to use the technology to make their jobs easier.
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use ItSixty percent of teachers said they’ve used ChatGPT—an AI-powered tool that can instantly answer seemingly any prompt—in their jobs, according to a nationally representative Walton Family Foundation survey conducted in June and July.
Can AI Improve Instruction? 3 Teachers Share How They Use ItI want to get over myself. I want to sing off-key. I want to dance without thinking twice. I want to publish shitty writing without it bothering me for the next two weeks. I want to tweet garbage. I want to brick fits. I want to do things even when I suck at them. I want to ask for what I want. I want to do it without apologizing. I want to produce excellent work. I want to be cool and interesting. I want to be powerful. I want to have lots and lots of friends whom I adore. I want to be liberated.
eating the table wafflewant to eat the table waffle. I want the other restaurant patrons to notice and think nothing of it because I carry out the motion with such conviction that it must be correct. I want to pluck the waffle off the table with my fingers and place it resolutely in my mouth, syrupy and substantial, and show my face as I do it.
eating the table waffleI know that shamelessness invites others to be shameless too, so as an act of martyrdom or joyous abandon, I muster it on occasion. But only 10-15% of the time at most. And I want to know what it feels like to be shameless all the time.
eating the table waffleWhen I came to the final bite, I speared it onto my fork and dunked it into my little tin of maple syrup. Moistened by the amber liquid, it slipped off the fork before making it into my mouth, landing tragically upon the black granite tabletop. Quickly, I jabbed at it with the tines of my utensil, once, twice, thrice, but to no avail. I made eye contact with a couple sitting nearby, two 30-somethings who had been discussing their law practice ambitions over the course of their meal. Mindful of their gaze and my unsuccessful attempts to retrieve the waffle civilly, I grabbed the piece with my p…
eating the table waffleHow am I this young and already alone? How am I this old and still so bad at making friends? Am I unlikeable? Am I difficult to be around? Am I much weirder than I think? Or is it that I'm too normal and boring?
eating the table waffleWhen I ruminate on my loss of particular varieties of togetherness that I can no longer rely upon, I incline toward shame.
eating the table waffleI’d be lying if I said that I didn’t miss belonging to a unit and its many gratifications: the inherent pleasure of connection, the assurance of having a place, the removal of the self-judgment that sometimes seizes me when confronted with situational friendlessness. Relationships, whether romantic or platonic, provide a script, and it is much less demanding to memorize a script than to write one. Shared experience is just easy to glamorize; after all, you’ve got two or more people working on it!
eating the table waffleThough I am usually alone by choice, it is not infrequent that I am alone due to failure -- specifically, the failure to rally a companion into joining me on whatever adventure I am plotting -- and this tends to feel bad.
eating the table waffleI am learning how to excel at navigating leisure as an individual, which is to say that I’m getting better at structuring my elective experience of the world in ways that are pleasant and satisfying rather than merely assigned or advised.
eating the table waffleI am learning how to excel at navigating leisure as an individual, which is to say that I’m getting better at structuring my elective experience of the world in ways that are pleasant and satisfying rather than merely assigned or advised.
eating the table waffleI can’t overstate how much my friends are the core of my life and how much joy they bring me.
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressI’ve met several really good friends off Twitter. Can’t recommend Twitter enough. Tweet like your life depends on it for six months and then you can enjoy the returns for the next five years.
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressLive in the city where the largest number of your good friends are. I pretty much moved back to SF strictly because of this.
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressit’s honestly just not nice to blow off your best friend for a month unless something traumatic is happening.
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressI’m a big believer that having good friends is enabled by a set of learnable skills—how to find people you like, how to put yourself out there, how to listen, how to make space, how to propose fun things to do—and I’ve become increasingly worried over that our society no longer sets people up for learning how to make and keep friends.
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressYou send funny Tiktoks that remind you of them
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressViewed through that lens, friendships are often more successful than romantic relationships.
making and keeping friends - by Ava - bookbear expressMaybe we weren’t meant to think too hard about what goes into a good friendship
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianThe premise that we can intellectualize and hack our way to the most meaningful friendships is, very likely, misguided.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianThese friends expand our boxes of possible experience. Spontaneity and unconstrained eagerness feel good because they are exercises in doing without thinking too much
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianThis view acknowledges that there is more to friendship than what can be gleaned for our immediate goals and that sometimes people can influence us enough to fundamentally change who we are.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianWill make every effort to be there at important moments in your life You trust deeply and feel comfortable sharing with Instinctively ask you to join them in whatever they’re doing
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qianyou might want friends to:
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qianwhat if we viewed friends as more aspirational?
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianYou know you will change and grow, you acknowledge you don’t know for certain where you’re going, and your friends are the people you most want to share that journey with.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianThe obsession with interestingness comes from a model of friendship that views friends as vehicles for ambition: you have an idea of what you want out of life, and friends are chosen with those priorities in mind.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianThere is intellectual fun, and there is fun—old-fashioned, forget about the world, I could do this forever type fun.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qianthe feeling of leaving a thoughtful conversation is qualitatively different than the feeling of returning from a night of karaoke.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qianour preoccupation with being interesting is symptomatic of a flawed view of friendship.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianYou shouldn’t feel obligated to be friends with everyone or pressured to get along with all people
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianEveryone is interesting. Every person in the world has a literal lifetime of experiences that have shaped who they are. They have internal thought processes and distinct worldviews that you won’t find within anyone else
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianIf I think about what kind of person I want to be close friends with—my best man at my wedding, people I would do anything for, the ones I can rely on when I’m at my lowest—smart and interesting really aren’t front of mind.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianFriends aren’t resources for intellectual stimulation or new insights. I don’t want my friends to like me because I read niche blogs or have things to say about crypto. It comes dangerously close to conflating knowing a lot, reading a lot, or having thoughtful things to say with moral goodness. (Worth noting that interesting isn’t a negative trait. I would prefer my friends to be interesting, but it feels superficial to prioritize it.)
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qianthere is a concerning amount of emphasis on having friends and seeking out people who are smart, thoughtful, and (the worst one of all) “interesting.”
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli Qianwhat makes someone a person you want to spend time with.
Stop trying to have "interesting" friends - by Eli QianNot all research needs to happen within the monolithic institutions in academia or profit-hungry companies.
Here's to the fools who dreamIn a world where you don’t need to work to stay alive, what would you do? What gives you excitement and joy? Completely ignoring what other people tell you is useful or good, what do you find intrinsically beautiful and good to do in the world?
Here's to the fools who dreamThese days, if you say you work in research, most people assume you work in academia. But it’s sort of odd that we assume you need someone’s permission to do research. There’s no reason that universities need to be the gatekeepers of exploring and developing new ideas.
Here's to the fools who dreamI began to see myself as an explorer, excited to share what I found with others. I let more people in to see what I was working on because I was excited to share what I found rather than afraid of what they thought of what I knew.
Here's to the fools who dreamt I strongly needed to figure out how to untie my self-worth from my project.
Here's to the fools who dreamwhat kind of researcher doesn’t even know what they’re researching? Later on, I would find that this floundering was sense-making hard at work
Here's to the fools who dreambear witness to the world that refuses to be predictable.
"I'm not ready" but it's happening anyways - by Nix 🕊All this talk, but I often don’t feel ready for the things in my life. Perhaps the learning is that I never will. But I can be open: to momentum, to change.
"I'm not ready" but it's happening anyways - by Nix 🕊