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Dating in San Francisco: The Odds are Bad and the Bads are Odd

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Why the common wisdom for women is actually wrong.

The most common thing I hear about dating in San Francisco for women is that “the odds are good, but the goods are odd.” Well, I’m here to burst that bubble: the odds actually aren’t good—at least not if you’re a college-educated woman. San Francisco is often seen as a tech bro playground, but that narrative leaves out two major caveats. First, this city is also famously one of the gayest in America. Second, once you filter by education—something most college-educated straight women tend to care about—the numbers get grim. I had always told myself that if things looked bleak in NYC, I…

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