How Relationships Actually Work - by Gretta Duleba

After six and a half years of looking into it, I've got it all figured out. Mostly.

Hello and welcome! If you want to get future posts delivered to you, you can subscribe: On March 17th, 2016, I decided to become a relationship therapist. It was an incongruous choice, given that I had previously spent seventeen years in software engineering. Computer nerds are not typically known for their social and emotional skills, and I was an undiagnosed autistic to boot. The decision snuck up on me. I’d left my promising and lucrative career in Big Tech the previous year, looking for something a little closer to the heart of the human experience. I was discussing my options with my…

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