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I’m really, really bad at making friends - by Vivian Loh

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I know of so many people — as in, their names are etched into my memory and I know what colleges they go to and vaguely what they’re working on, and I remember their personalities quite clearly from when I met them a few years ago.

I know of so many people — as in, their names are etched into my memory and I know what colleges they go to and vaguely what they’re working on, and I remember their personalities quite clearly from when I met them a few years ago. All of them are really cool and intellectual — I see their posts on Instagram from all around the world, and I hear through the grapevine of things they do — yet when meeting them through camps and classes and programs in these past few years, I’ve never quite managed to be their friend. It’s like these people were there, but I failed to do something and they…

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