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Couples who have had secure attachment going for a decade plus radiate such a beautiful reality enhancement field, you feel like family just being in their presence One pet theory I have is that many people who are scared of commitment just haven’t been around a good model of what it can look like

Couples who have had secure attachment going for a decade plus radiate such a beautiful reality enhancement field, you feel like family just being in their presence One pet theory I have is that many people who are scared of commitment just haven’t been around a good model of what it can look like When you see how it can go well, it’s so obviously worth striving for — a tweet by Sasha Chapin It would be great if there was a book or a film that charted the trajectory of a profoundly healthy and transformational relationship so that more people could immerse themselves in that experience.…

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