The Loner's Dilemma · Keiji Imai
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The right amount of loneliness
This is currently a draft, I'd very much appreciate feedback anonymously , through discord ( kogappa ), or via email ( [email protected] )! It's annoying that loneliness is optional. In high school, I always ate lunch by myself and went through my day without talking to anybody. This was the least lonely period of my life. For me, loneliness comes from the longing for connection, not the quantity of it. I now have lots of friends both in-person and oceans away, yet the pang of loneliness strikes on weekends when I don't know what to do with myself. This is a stupid problem. Why don't I ju
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