dating - by Elaine - manners & mystery

why does it suck and can it be better?

Joseph Lorusso, End of the Night, 1966 Renee Solana@ReneeSolana Is dating unethical 10:57 PM · Sep 26, 2022 6 Reposts · 222 Likes Seeing this question brought up a lot for me as it did for many people. While I don’t want to pass moral judgment on dating as a whole endeavor, I think it goes without saying that the way we date is very problematic. It’s easy to blame the apps. They present the illusion of abundance by constantly feeding us new people, so it can be hard to really focus on one person and give them the time and attention needed for a relationship to grow. On top of that,…

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