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Account name: Password (OpenID?) (Forgot it?) Remember Me You're viewing siderea's journal Create a Dreamwidth Account Learn More Interest Region Site and Account FAQ Email Reload page in style: site light Sibylla Bostoniensis Everything Unravels, Everything Will Fade Recent Entries Archive Reading Network Tags Memories Profile [psych/anthro, Patreon] The Asshole Filter Sep. 15th, 2015 02:26 am siderea If you find yourself wondering, or just feeling, "Why is everyone I wind up dealing with an asshole?" you might want to consider the possibility that you have set up an asshole filter. Asshole filters are an extremely common phenomenon, and an extremely common problem. An asshole filter happens when one has set of norms which results in one primarily, or at least disproportionately, coming into contact with assholes. It doesn't occur to most people that filtering for assholes is even a possibility for what could be going on. The popular alternative is to just conclude that
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