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Has anyone gotten back together with an Ex and how is it going? : BreakUps

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Not really looking to hear the hypothetical “it never works.” Looking for stories of what happened, how long the break was (nc or not) and what y’all did in getting back together. And where are y’all today? 6 year relationship ended in January. We reconciled in May. Things are going very well. Ahhh my dream What did y’all do to make it work better? Why did y’all end the first time? We ended because she was unhappy. I had a lot of trauma from my childhood that I never dealt with and it caused me to be very emotionally detached from everything, including her. I had trouble displaying affection and love and it eventually became too much for her. I had also lost my job due to the pandemic and my confidence took a major hit. So the first thing I did was seek therapy. I finally realized I couldn't handle this on my own. That was the best thing I did. I also did a lot of research into being a better partner. Learned about love languages, healthy communication, etc. Started going to the gym, r

My ex and I got back together. Together for 1year and we had no real big fights but over a couple of weeks she became distant and dropped the bomb on me saying she has a lot going on and she has to find herself. We kept somewhat in touch, it was some what mutual to just text each other randomly. But those texts always hurt. Fast forward, I gave her space and she started contacting me more. She said that she didn't tell her family because she knew it wasn't a "permanent" break up and she really needed time. We would talk, go out to dinner, hookup, then her behavior came back and said she…

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