Skip the small talk | Optimizing
Standard conversational crutches will not work tonight. Yet, projected in a prominent place, is a list of questions. Conveniently, these are the sorts of questions you’d ask someone at a specific kind of gathering. They’re a little quirky, slightly strange. Each wants to land at the intersection of probing and whimsical. Such a list might look like this: This list takes questions and inspiration from many sources. Chief among them are Lama’s list, and All Souls examination papers. I plan on updating the list often and linking to sources as I remember them.
Skip the small talk | Textures Skip the small talk 2022/10/08 Imagine a party. At the beginning, the host tells the attendees there are only two rules: You can't talk about work You can't talk about cities Standard conversational crutches will not work tonight. Yet, projected in a prominent place, is a list of questions. Conveniently, these are the sorts of questions you'd ask someone at a specific kind of gathering. They're a little quirky, slightly strange. Each wants to land at the intersection of probing and whimsical. Such a list might look like this: What's the worst advice you've ever r
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