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undoing the pain

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Please configure another 2FA method to reduce your risk of permanent account lockout. We strongly recommend against SMS as it is prone to fraud and delivery may be unreliable depending on your region. https://docs.google.com/document/u/1/d/1lR4NWLlCbBAxrXdRiVn82zC3iiF7fATPtVnPA2C1TwU/edit for those of us who never learned how or for those of us who are and want to be able to share but don't know how. recently, i noticed some people i know are very well-adapted. able to motivate themselves to do what they desire. able to enjoy as much of their life as possible. able to feel emotions freely without being trapped by them. able to connect with others, make friends. pleasant to be with. but above all, these people have a feeling of being unassailable. they are extremely themselves, in a way that can't be taken from them. not only are they largely free from past trauma, but seemingly resistant to current and future trauma. strong, but not strong through rigidity or shutting out feelings – st

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