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Were You Blindsided By A Breakup? - Magnet of Success

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Blindsided breakups are the worst. They hit dumpees out of the blue and leave them with tons of pain and separation anxiety. Unlike dumpers who are detached and don’t care about their partners, dumpees are attached and care more than ever. They love their partners inside out and don’t expect to get broken up with. They have a positive relationship mentality and a false sense of control that makes them think they can talk about problems and fix them before the breakup ensues. Because they’re emotionally invested and convinced they can resolve relationship problems before they snowball into unresolvable issues, dumpees remain loyal to the relationship and expect their partner to be communicative, respectful, mature, and patient. They believe their partner will express problems and concerns like them and act how they would act. Little do they know that their partner isn’t wired and developed the same way as them. Their partner has a mind of his or her own and doesn’t think, feel, or behav

Updated on December 19, 2022 Blindsided breakups are the worst. They hit dumpees out of the blue and leave them with tons of pain and separation anxiety . Unlike dumpers who are detached and don’t care about their partners, dumpees are attached and care more than ever. They love their partners inside out and don’t expect to get broken up with. They have a positive relationship mentality and a false sense of control that makes them think they can talk about problems and fix them before the breakup ensues. Because they’re emotionally invested and convinced they can resolve rela

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