Boundary Issues — Parapraxis

How boundaries became the rules for mental health—and explain everything Lily Scherlis

Boundary Issues The Social Link Jul 10 Written By Lily Scherlis How boundaries became the rules for mental health—and explain everything Lily Scherlis We are obsessed with invisible circles. “Personal boundaries”—or often just “boundaries”—are the hallmark of emotional maturity, ethical integrity, and social desirability. Wellness influencers and book-writing therapists promise that if you clarify the line dividing you from those around you, your boyfriend will stop envying your career and start doing the dishes. Children will stay out of your home office. Friends and lovers will stop using yo

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