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10 Reasons You’re Lazy About Dating – Put A Number On It!

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Everyone complains that dating isn’t working, but no one want to put the work into dating. Here are 10 reasons why.

In years of writing and talking to people about dating the biggest mystery to me has been that most single people seem to spend so little effort on their dating lives. They’d tell me that finding a partner is as important as their career or their hobbies, then they’d spend 40 hours a week working, 20 hours watching Netflix, and half an hour swiping on Tinder half-hoping no one would actually match them and expect a message to be written. People put more thought into their brunch order than into composing their online dating profiles. They don’t seek out places where members o

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