Before the game begins - by Espen Slettnes - SPARC JC Blog

Watching us flip coins

After I gave a lightning talk1 about a month and a half ago, Joshua (SPARC ‘25) asked several follow-up questions that made me realize that the talk was worth writing down. I’ve found this quite fun and even added a few sections beyond the original talk. Hope you enjoy! I recently read some messages that inspired this talk, paraphrased here:2 Alice: “just found out that my ex used to intentionally undermine my sense of self-sufficiency. it seems like the only reason i got out is that they eventually intentionally stopped” Bob: “if you want to share more about this feel free. :( you can…

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