Marry Young

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When my classmates find out that I’m married, they usually ask me two questions: “How old are you?” and “Why did you marry so young?” Although I’m now twenty-four, I got married as a twenty-two year old undergrad. I then bid farewell to my dorm in Roble and moved into a cozy apartment beyond EVGR with my wife. I have found that most of my classmates are convinced that marriage is in their future, yet they are quite surprised that I married so young. While it’s difficult to exercise control over any timeline, I’m a strong advocate for getting married young, especially at Stanford where young marriages are most uncommon. In the field of marriage studies, some researchers distinguish between earlier (cornerstone) marriages and later (capstone) marriages. Let’s call these “startup” and “merger” marriages, respectively, to cater to Stanford’s culture. Generally, startup marriages are between partners in their mid-to-early twenties, while merger marriages are between those in their late twen

Table of Contents When my classmates find out that I’m married, they usually ask me two questions: “How old are you?” and “Why did you marry so young?” Although I’m now twenty-four, I got married as a twenty-two year old undergrad. I then bid farewell to my dorm in Roble and moved into a cozy apartment beyond EVGR with my wife. I have found that most of my classmates are convinced that marriage is in their future, yet they are quite surprised that I married so young. While it’s difficult to exercise control over any timeline, I’m a strong advocate for getting married young, especially at Stanf

Marry Young

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