Trust develops gradually via making bids and setting boundaries — LessWrong
In my previous post, I talked through the process of identifying the fears underlying internal conflicts. In some cases, just listening to and unders…
x Trust develops gradually via making bids and setting boundaries — LessWrong Replacing fear Internal Alignment (Human) Motivations Relationships (Interpersonal) Rationality Curated 139 Trust develops gradually via making bids and setting boundaries by Richard_Ngo 19th May 2023 5 min read 12 139 In my previous post, I talked through the process of identifying the fears underlying internal conflicts. In some cases, just listening to and understanding those scared parts is enough to make them feel better—just as, when venting to friends or partners, we often primarily want to be heard rather tha
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