Oops, Did I Mention I Want that? - by DavidXYu - XY-Wise
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Here's a message I sent a while ago to my partner.
Here's a message I sent a while ago to my partner. A normal enough invite, surely? ... Here's what I then sent, after a big realization: What do you notice in the second message? Can you spot my "big realization"? Wait, I want to have lunch and hang out!! This isn’t just describing an available option – I actually want this! In fact, it took me 9 whole minutes to realize that I want something here! And apparently, when I want something, but am not aware of it, my way of seeking it is something like: That’s … hmm … not quite how I want to express my desires. Scarily, the first type…
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