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ok so this is a pretty casual brain dump its not really meant to be read as an essay or blog post its meant to be read as a playbook; can glance at my experiences if you are curious about the background and context for a lot of these strategies ive synthesized enjoy! 😁 community is kinda the thing; build the habit & skill of recognizing it and building it. thats probably what i will be living for for the rest of my life. this is something i am very tied to in my personal life dating after writing https://harrisonqian.com/writing/how_confidence_changed_my_life i was like "yo social anxiety is solved" but really it wasnt extended to work, friends, family, school aquaintances in which i have very strong success but ignore the successful sides a pattern is that i will recieve some insane compliments / people like me but i ignore that and try to win over the people that dont like me literally would take stuff i hear from people and say it to others in convos (morphing myself into them) use