dear bear: how do I handle a friendship breakup? - by Ava

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I had a friendship breakup and now I feel betrayed and hurt and just. so. freaking. tired. For a long time I have had 2 buckets, one for people who come and go, the other for people who would stay for life. I decided a long time ago this person was the stay-for-life bucket, so when they decided to end the friendship, I was in a state of disbelief, and just so much sadness. Worse still, there's no music about friendship breakups, no advice column, no essays or books to make sense of what's going on. Can you help me make sense of this complex emotion? Hi Bear, It’s a universally acknowledged truth that friendship breakups can be more traumatic than breakup-breakups, but we still have no idea how to make sense of them. Because we hold our romantic partners to such a high bar—they’re our lovers and our logistical partners and our Best Friends—it sort of makes sense when someone breaks up with you. You’re just not the person who can be Everything (or at least 85% of everything) for them, an

Hello! I know it’s the time of year when a lot of subscriptions renew, so I just want to offer 30% off subscriptions if you get a yearly subscription. Thank you for your continuous support of my work :) And please ask me Dear Bear questions here. Dear Bear, I had a friendship breakup and now I feel betrayed and hurt and just. so. freaking. tired. For a long time I have had 2 buckets, one for people who come and go, the other for people who would stay for life. I decided a long time ago this person was the stay-for-life bucket, so when they decided to end the friendship, I was in a state of…

dear bear: how do I handle a friendship breakup? - by Ava

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