I just found out my ex is dating someone else. Pls help, I’m shaking… : BreakUps

I know it may seem impossible or silly now, but if they were the right person for you, you’d still be together. I don’t know how old you are, but this too shall pass, and you’ll end up as a better version of yourself. Maybe you’ll figure out what you want or don’t want, how you can change to become a better person (and I don’t mean in “you suck” way, it’s just that we’re all human and nobody’s perfect, and we can always improve)… Take care of yourself, be the kind, loving person you need to yourself. If you need to cry, cry. Punch pillows. Scream. It will help. Don’t keep it all in. And honestly, just because they aren’t together right now, doesn’t mean it’s not the right person. If that were universally true, I wouldn’t even exist because my parents broke up for a year (and my mom treated my dad like shit for that entire year) yet they have been together for 30 years since — and they’re still madly in love with each other. It’s not fun, but sometimes people have to go their separate w

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