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Stuff I've learned - by Siddharth - cybermonk

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You don’t have an attention problem. Rather, you sense danger everywhere and can’t relax enough to focus. It is far more pleasant to choose beliefs and thoughts for their practical utility than for their correctness. This is a change of axioms and not something that can be reached through reasoning. To the extent that you can eliminate a sense of identity, do so. One’s mind is constantly changing, so identity simply ties you to an imperfect description of the past. You’re trapped between your anger and people’s aversion to your anger. Ignore others, allow yourself to feel angry, and it will slowly dissipate. You will never find people who are similar to you by looking superficially. You have always felt different from others, so the people who you can most relate to appear vastly different from you. Travel slows the process of growth by disrupting the routines that are the foundation of your life and physical health. You are not an archivist chronicling your life. You can erase and rew

You don’t have an attention problem. Rather, you sense danger everywhere and can’t relax enough to focus. It is far more pleasant to choose beliefs and thoughts for their practical utility than for their correctness. This is a change of axioms and not something that can be reached through reasoning. To the extent that you can eliminate a sense of identity, do so. One’s mind is constantly changing, so identity simply ties you to an imperfect description of the past. You’re trapped between your anger and people’s aversion to your anger. Ignore others, allow yourself to feel angry, and it will sl

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