What Is a ‘Thought Daughter’ and Why Is It Trending?

On the heels of the phenomenon known as “eldest daughter syndrome,” a new type of daughter has entered the online chat: the “thought daughter.” She’s similar to the eldest daughter in that she is responsible, anxious, and prone to people pleasing. But where eldest daughters typically have strong personalities and a penchant for control, “thought daughters” are more introspective, intellectual in their pursuits, and devout over-thinkers. GettyImages/blackCAT Experts say that's not always a bad thing. There are ways for caregivers to connect with their "thought daughters" and help them thrive. So, how did “thought daughters,” who by definition don’t love the spotlight, find their viral moment? Well, it was born out of backlash when an offensive internet question resurfaced. Street interviewers were asking: “Would you rather have a gay son or a thot daughter?” And yes, that head scratching inquiry was meant to be provocative while highlighting societal prejudices and stereotypes. The term

On the heels of the phenomenon known as “eldest daughter syndrome,” a new type of daughter has entered the online chat: the “thought daughter.” She’s similar to the eldest daughter in that she is responsible, anxious, and prone to people pleasing. But where eldest daughters typically have strong personalities and a penchant for control, “thought daughters” are more introspective, intellectual in their pursuits, and devout over-thinkers. GettyImages/blackCAT Experts say that's not always a bad thing. There are ways for caregivers to connect with their "thought daughters" and help them thrive. S