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Worship. Adoration. Valence. - by Dmitry

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Women evolved to selectively provide approval, veneration, and submission to the masculine. I think this can be understood holistically and spiritually as a desire to worship. If you’re going to submit to someone, you must be deferential to him, which means you must respect him, which means he must do respectable things. Submission is always earned. To venerate strength, someone needs to be strong. Masculine actions display these traits to the feminine to win her worship. You willingly allow someone to lead who shows you he’s capable of leading. For the feminine to devote herself to the masculine of her own volition, men must behave in a manner deserving of her surrendering. The feminine yearns to worship the masculine in this way; she wants to dispense it, but doesn’t just hand it out. Her intrinsic currency is her body and her worship, and it’s up to her to be prudent with it by allocating it to men she deems worthy. The modern term for this is “hypergamy”. The masculine wants to fee

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