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Friends and relationships – Santi Aranguri

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9. After 5 years of not seeing a good friend, I ran into her in a random Falafel store both coming with our friends. She then asked: what if I was in another random Falafel store, would have I met another person, and so by being here I am not meeting them? Not really. The point is that by being authentic we’ll meet people in the same search. Even more, by behaving in an authentic way, we’ll connect more. That is my spirituality: connecting with people that are in the same search. 8. What emotion have you been feeling strongly lately? 7. Close friends are in a position to ask you: when can’t you restrain yourself? when are you wrong? You can’t lie to them in the same way as you lie to yourself. Also: close friends generally aren’t surprised about what you do. However, sometimes they can be deeply proud of you. Compare this to random people, which can easily be surprised about your recent achievements, but rarely would be proud of you. 6. Why utilitarians or rationals are less social? I

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