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Blindsided breakup! Trust me it’s not your fault. : BreakUps

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No it’s not your fault! Even if you could tell ur partner was getting annoyed our frustrated there’s nothing you could have done about it. Your partner failed to communicate the problem and thought u could read their mind. Your partner gave up on the relationship, because you wouldn’t change a problem you were unaware about. They’re not grieving as the relationship was over long ago, they just forgot to tell you. They might come back, do u want them back? No. There shitty way of communicating is why you’re so heartbroken and left picking up the pieces, it’s one of the cruelest ways you can break up with someone. My example of this, my first gf. Lovely girl dated for 18 months, breaks up with me completely out of the blue and says she “lost attraction” “lost feelings” “had been thinking about breaking up for months” all while I spent $500 on a pair of shoes for her birthday and acted completely fine just weeks and days before the break up. She tells me “I shouldn’t have had to tell you

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