flâneur — a map of the web's best reading

I'm Just a Girl Looking Downstairs at a Party

hellohayes.substack.com · saved by 1 readers

I’ve made two podcast episodes since we last spoke! One is about feeling excluded in friendships, and the other is about how to deepen connections with new friends. These are both available to watch on YouTube (which is where I’m focusing my video creation these days) and to listen wherever you get your pods. Thanks for your consideration! Onto the newsletter… Morning loves! Today’s story begins in my therapist’s office and ends in George Lucas’s living room. One of George’s living rooms. So, in January I started seeing a therapist for the first time since college. It’d been eight years since I sat in the chair and did the thing, and so far, it’s going pretty well. One thing we’re working on are my spiraling thoughts. My brain has always been a little chaotic (how ‘bout “special,” Hayes), but this year it’s been particularly challenging to manage. For me a spiral goes like this: I could be unwinding on the couch, laughing at Schitt’s Creek reruns with Brian, when suddenly I’ll realize

I’ve made two podcast episodes since we last spoke! One is about feeling excluded in friendships, and the other is about how to deepen connections with new friends. These are both available to watch on YouTube (which is where I’m focusing my video creation these days) and to listen wherever you get your pods. Thanks for your consideration! Onto the newsletter… Morning loves! Today’s story begins in my therapist’s office and ends in George Lucas’s living room. One of George’s living rooms. So, in January I started seeing a therapist for the first time since college. It’d been eight years since

Explore this link on the map →