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DEAR SUGAR, The Rumpus Advice Column #71: The Ghost Ship That Didn't Carry Us - The Rumpus Skip to content Dear Sugar DEAR SUGAR, The Rumpus Advice Column #71: The Ghost Ship That Didn’t Carry Us By Sugar • April 21, 2011 Dear Sugar, For those of us who aren’t lucky enough to “just know,” how is a person to decide if he or she wants to have a child? I’m a forty-one-year-old man and have been able thus far to postpone that decision while I got all the other pieces of my life in order. Generally speaking, I’ve enjoyed myself as a solo (or partnered) human. I’ve always had

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