When in Doubt, Choose Love. Throughout time, poets, philosophers… | by Sarah Tsai | Medium

Throughout time, poets, philosophers and psychologists have generally agreed that there are really only two emotions: love and fear. How do we make decisions on a daily basis? I have learned that we can neither trust our minds nor our feelings. For example — pain isn’t always a sign that you did something wrong. It might just mean that the decision you made was unfamiliar or uncomfortable. Pain should not deter you from the path you know is right for you. In the end, choosing what is comfortable can lead to are more pain later on. ― Christine Caine When you know that something does not feel right — and you have to justify, self-negotiate, or bargain in order to maintain a sense of peace — it’s the first sign that a change is not only needed, but required. The sentiment of “trust”, like a pregnancy, is binary. It doesn’t register via the shades grey. You don’t partially trust someone. You either do or do not trust them. Giving someone your trust who does not deserve it is always going t

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