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I've Gone Back To An Ex Twice... But Not In The Way You Think

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I’ve been watching Love Island for the first time in years. Yes, All Stars lured me in and now I have love on my mind. Specifically the on-again, off-again kind of love and why sometimes it’s easier to go for the familiar. I tried to write about this in The Selfish Romantic and whilst it is in there in parts, it’s hard to capture the complexity and nuance, especially in a culture that is so quick to shame and blame. I’m a believer that there are very few clear-cut rules in dating and this is proof of that! On set this week. The irony is the times I look most fashionable are the times I have left the house in my pyjamas, makeup-free and unbrushed hair because they are doing hair, makeup and styling when I get there hence the most neutral outfit you will ever spot me in. Felt very chic! That’s not the only thing we are talking about this week though, this week I am ALSO sharing with you: I’ve Discovered The Trick To Getting Back With An Ex The Physiological Hack To Calm Your Body Down Bu

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