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Don't build connections.Just connect. - by Hoang Nguyen
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Why rapid-fire methods for building connections, like networking or speed dating events, simply don't work.
Don't build connections.Just connect. Why rapid-fire methods for building connections, like networking or speed dating events, simply don't work. Hoang Nguyen Sep 18, 2023 2 Share Connections, unlike constructions, aren't built. They're made. They're made by the early morning reply from my colleague Nguyen, saying she also enjoyed the song that you keep repeating through the whole night on your 4am Instagram note. That reply alone helped pave the way for us to connect on a whole different level, compared to everything we had ever discussed since we became colleagues. They're made when I chose
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