Judgyness
It has been pointed out to me that I am judgy. It would be one thing if I was unkind, and didn't care about the person. Instead, though, I say, tapping the sign, so much bad behavior is the typical mind fallacy. And I would benefit hugely from someone who told me these things, and shocked me into thinking harder, perhaps even in the same abrasive manner (assuming that person was, of course, correct). I disagree easily, but change my mind quickly, and so speaking to me always has the subjective valence of "Jason thinks I'm wrong" (because when I stop thinking that, I've changed my mind.) A corollary: similar category of words that I use somewhat often are "You've changed my mind", "Yep that makes sense", "Yep, you're right", "Wow", "That is so elegant", "I love this person" and then, crediting the person, repeating the take for many of the next conversations. But, I would argue that I am the way that I am because I care about you and the truth, and that the meanest thing for me to do is
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