nancy zuo

the pressure feels so on these days. my mom is like 'nancy have you found a guy yet' and pushes me to go down my list of guy friends to evaluate which is the best option relationship-wise. my friends who recently graduated are telling me to find someone in university since it'll be much harder later. and they're probably right. in high school my mom was pretty forceful, and set me up on blind dates occasionally. one time she didn't tell me it was a blind date until we got to the restaurant and when we got there she pretended to be 'surprised' to bump into them. i had dinner with him and his mom while his mom asked me about my accomplishments... it was the most awkward and uncomfortable experience i ever had. i apologized to the guy afterward and interestingly he shared his side of the story and also apologized. i know my mom means the best for me but this is just too much. it's probably because she waited to get married late and regretted it and she's trying to avoid that fate for me.

the pressure feels so on these days. my mom is like 'nancy have you found a guy yet' and pushes me to go down my list of guy friends to evaluate which is the best option relationship-wise. my friends who recently graduated are telling me to find someone in university since it'll be much harder later. and they're probably right. in high school my mom was pretty forceful, and set me up on blind dates occasionally. one time she didn't tell me it was a blind date until we got to the restaurant and when we got there she pretended to be 'surprised' to bump into them. i had dinner with him and his mo